Testimonial
Q: I got to the biggest fear that I have that I know came from somebody who is really messed up, gave me philosophy that I’m responsible for everybody else’s happiness. I know I shouldn’t follow it, but it’s what I grew up with. How do I go forward with the action I want to take without linking it to what I think is going to make my spouse happy or upset? And I go for myself and not feel selfish?
A: Do you know what action you should take?
Q: I know several of them I should take to get there.
A: Okay then just take the action even if you feel selfish. Does the action take away from your spouse’s right to make his own decisions?
Q: I guess my biggest fear is that given our age difference and the different generations we grew up in, it’s going to affect his self esteem and I don’t want to do that.
A: You’re not responsible for his self-esteem. As a practical matter it is impossible by the laws of this universe for you to take responsibility for another person’s self-esteem. Even if you wanted you, you just can’t do it because self-esteem doesn’t come from another person. Self-esteem has to come from within you. You need a Mastermind, but my advice to you in the meantime is just take the actions you know you need to take.
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Melissa Pearce
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2016
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LQM
Event Location Cat. 2
Malibu
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Divorce
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Michigan
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File Location: /Volumes/G-Drive Duy-11-2015/LIVE EVENTS/LQM/Q&A Sessions/2016-01-LQM/2016-01-LQM-QA-MELISSA-PEARCE.MP4
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2016-01-LQM-Malibu
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